The learning curve: Transitions and Dualities
Americans may be
known for double entry accounting, but where is the phrase that describes the
dual accounting systems, tools, processes, procedures, roles, etc. that take
place in a merger?
Whether a marriage
or a corporate merger, we can assume that before coming together all parties
involved were busy, pretty efficient, comfortable with their styles and ways
and were not planning on changing much. OK, maybe some more
advanced souls were continuing to evolve and change all the time... But, how
many of us, are ready for the impact of this change?
From a personal
perspective, I am learning. If you looked at my calendar on most weeks, it is
usually quite full. I have created a rhythm of getting work done that has
worked for me in the past, but no longer supports how much we have grown as a
company.
My new
administrative assistant started two weeks ago. My business partner, Roberta
Hill and I are integrating our assessment tools, M & A readiness training
and other consultants' tools into our approach. Baseball season has also
started (the time of year that I want to be present for my son's games when
possible and support the baseball league).
As my new admin
assistant started, it was clear that nothing would be quite the same. She
approaches getting work done in a way that is new to me. I had restrain my
desire to tell that how I do things is THE way to go and sit back and
wait and see how her methods and procedures work. It is uncomfortable for me
and honestly, not easy to let go in what turns out to be very sensitive areas
in my life. I am sure it is not easy for her either to learn what I need and
the reasons behind it either. When I find myself explaining the reasons, I
sometimes find a tension in my belly, as I question whether what I have taken
for granted is THE way to go.
At first things
took so much longer ...and in the end not only did I need to find time to
explain things, check things over and re-explain some things, but I still had
to do most of the work myself in order to meet my deadlines. Getting through
this period was not easy. As I said, I didn't have much free time to
begin with. I had to re-evaluate what was most important and what could wait...
and be appreciative for the learning that was taking place and the strong, long
term foundation that was forming.
Oddly and
thankfully, what I am noticing in this transition is that my stress level has
gone down tremendously and that I feel a deep, inner calm. I began sensing that
all would work out. I was gaining trust in the new processes and procedures
that were forming... Most importantly, I trusted my admin assistant, valued her
competencies and let go of more and more control, placing it into her hands.
It is this trust in
another and valuing of another's competencies and ways (though different than
mine) that drives my partnership, too... and with the trust, I notice what we
are attracting to us; the work, experiences, colleagues and the sense that my
world is well, continues to grow with a deep feeling of contentment.
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